LifeLink Devotions

Thursday, June 2, 2022

Several years ago I was enjoying breakfast with some friends and family at my favorite restaurant. While we were waiting for our food, a young man and woman walked in and sat down at the booth next to our table. I must confess to an immediate internal reaction of pride that manifested itself in judgmentalism. He was covered in tattoos, had multiple piercings, and had earlobes that had been pierced and the holes stretched so they held two-inch discs. His girlfriend was equally pierced and tattooed, except for the ears. As I sat at the table, I found that I had formed a pretty solid opinion of who these people were just by their appearance. I was amazed and ashamed at how quickly I jumped to conclusions.

As we continued to talk at our table, I overheard the young man say, “I just can’t decide whether I want the Palm 800 or the new Blackberry.” Instantly I knew I could offer him some advice, since I have had both. I thought about how I would approach him to give him my information that would help him make a decision. Then the Holy Spirit brought down the hammer. I suddenly realized that this was a man of normal mentality, normal desires, and normal goals for life. But I had judged him by his appearance and deemed him to be different. So different, in fact, that I wanted to alienate myself from him rather than draw close to him.

Suddenly the Holy Spirit was showing me that he could use anyone from any background and of any appearance if they only had someone tell them the most vital of all information, the love of Jesus Christ for sinners. I sat there almost in a trance for the next few minutes, imaging what my church people would think if this man walked into church some Sunday. Many would probably judge him by his appearance the same way I did. I was ashamed. Why is it, I wondered, that we respond to people based on their past rather than their potential? Now I knew that I must talk to him. I would not necessarily talk to him about faith, but I would force myself to look beyond his exterior to the need that he had expressed, and I would meet that need. While doing that I would pray that he would see in me the love of Jesus.

When our meal was over, I stood up and moved two steps over to his table. I excused myself, and apologized for interrupting their breakfast. I told him I had overheard his concern about cell phones, and that I had owned both. I shared my experience with each one and gave him my advice. He thanked me, and I walked away. As I did, I overheard him say to his girlfriend, “That was sure nice of him to do that.”

Mission accomplished. How God will use that in his life is up to Him. How God used it in my life is making a difference.

Joshua 2:1  Then Joshua son of Nun secretly sent two spies from Shittim. “Go, look over the land,” he said, “especially Jericho.” So they went and entered the house of a prostitute named Rahab and stayed there.  

When the men of Israel went to Jericho to spy out the city, little did they know that God had been preparing the way for them. He had been bringing fear upon the people because of His previous displays of power on behalf of the Israelites. These two men chose an inconspicuous way to enter the city – they went to the home of a prostitute. They had no intention or forethought that this person was a potential convert. They thought that her need for money would result in their safety. They were only looking out for themselves. But God had other plans. God had prepared her heart to be His follower. The spies responded with the love of God. She would be accepted and rescued when the city was attacked. Her past meant nothing anymore. Only what God was going to do with her mattered. It mattered so much that when we read the lineage of the life of Jesus, we will find Rahab mentioned. She was the great, great grandmother of King David. She is in the lineage of the Messiah.

What a lesson for all of us to learn. The people we think are the most deserving of judgment are the ones most needful of God’s grace. We can make a huge difference if we will just learn to extend God’s grace to them. The spies did that for Rahab. Ananias did that for Saul after he met Jesus on the road to Damascus. Barnabas did it for Saul when he arrived in Jerusalem. Peter learned he must do it for the Gentiles and went to the home of Cornelius. Ultimately Jesus did it for each one of us. We must be more convinced of the power of God to save than we are of the power of a person’s past to condemn. We must start making a difference for Jesus by joining Him in His mission to make a difference in people’s souls, no matter what they have done or what they look like. After all, is anyone more undeserving than we were?

Pastor John

LifeLink Devotions

Wednesday, June 1, 2022

Matthew 25:35-40  “For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.” …“I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.” 

Seventeen years ago, right after hurricanes Katrina and Rita, the Spirit of God clearly directed me to lead our church to adopt a sister church in the storm-ravaged area of southern Louisiana. For 9 years people from our church made multiple trips to the bayou to help rebuild homes in an attempt to introduce the owners of those homes to the Savior who can rebuild their lives. The pastor of the church we adopted, was making a difference in the lives of people who were devastated by two hurricanes. His name is Jerry Moser, and his story was told in an October 2, 2005 article in The Baptist Message magazine. The article was entitled “Sawmill helps pastor minister to needy, lost.“

BAYOU DULARGE, Louisiana – This verse (Matt. 25:35-40) fittingly describes the work Pastor Jerry Moser has been doing in the tiny south Louisiana fishing community of Bayou DuLarge for the last 26 years. With a portable sawmill, a knack for carpentry, and a giving heart, Moser has ministered to needy families on Bayou DuLarge whether they are a member of his tiny church or not. He is a beacon in a sea of despair and poverty. 

“Brethren helping brethren,” Moser said. “I believe it is what our Lord commanded us to do. Helping the most unlikely is how the salvation and righteousness of God is going to be revealed to the people of the world. I believe if the church is attractive enough to outsiders, and by that I mean if people see how we love all men, care for our brethren, and help our neighbors in times of need, it might get them to thinking they may want to be a part of a church like this.”

Storms like these are a boon for Moser’s sawmill ministry, providing opportunities for him to reach people in need. The pastor has devoted a large portion of his time to cutting up fallen trees. He also gets a number of calls from people offering him their storm-damaged trees. He takes all that he can get. Over the years, Moser has cut hundreds of thousands of board feet, and has put it to good use, either ministering directly to those in need or selling what he can to make ends meet for church and family.

“A lot of this lumber is used in helping the people in this community to rebuild after a storm,” Moser said. “With the price of lumber these days, it comes in handy, especially for those who don’t have a lot to work with in the first place.”

Over the years, Moser and volunteers from numerous churches in Louisiana and across the nation have helped the people of this community to rebuild after each devastating storm.

“I can’t tell you the number of storms that have passed through here,” Moser said. “But each is an opportunity from God to reach lost people. When our church began this repair/rebuild ministry, at least three quarters of the people we helped after a storm were not saved,” Moser said. “Today, as we prepare to help the community rebuild and recover, two-thirds of the people we will help are members of our church.”

Moser, though, is concerned about how many will come back to rebuild.

“We are on a marsh island that is only 16 inches above sea level. It is slowly sinking into the Gulf of Mexico,” Moser said. “After Hurricane Rita in 2005, many people knew they had to get their houses raised up off the ground. We were able, with the help of a lot of volunteers from a lot of different churches, to get some houses repaired, rebuilt, or raised up on new foundations,” the pastor continued. “Those houses rode out these last two storms pretty well. But there were some that we were just not able to get to quickly enough to help get them up off the ground. These families were not as fortunate, and I am afraid some may not stay. They may move closer to the city [Houma]. I would hate to see them leave, but some are no longer physically up to the challenge or just don’t have the money to rebuild,” Moser said.

Regardless of how many make that decision, Moser, whose church building – Bayou DuLarge Baptist – sits on pilings ten feet off the ground, plans on staying and helping people to rebuild and recover.

“Our young adults may be the ones that need the most help,” Moser said. “We need to help them – we need to extend out our hands and help them get back up on their feet. Brethren helping brethren. It is what God wants us to do,” Moser said. “And it is what I plan to do as long as God allows me to do so.”

What a great testimony to the compassion of Christ. If you were to spend any time at all with Jerry, as I have, you would know that he is sincerely in love with Jesus and sincerely His servant. You would see the touch of Jesus on people’s lives who would never had known Him unless they had seen Him in person – in the person of Pastor Jerry. Lives that are lived with such a sacrificial spirit truly make a difference.

You are serving Jesus when you help others, and it makes a difference.

Pastor John

LifeLink Devotions

Tuesday, May 31, 2022

It happened in a small church during Vacation Bible School.  The teacher says she will never forget it. Her class was interrupted on Wednesday about an hour before dismissal when a new student was brought in. The little boy had one arm missing, and since the class was almost over, she had no opportunity to learn any of the details about the cause or his state of adjustment. She was very nervous and afraid that one of the other children would comment on his handicap and embarrass him. There was no opportunity to caution them, so she proceeded as carefully as possible. As the class time came to a close, she began to relax. She asked the class to join her in their usual closing ceremony. “Let’s make our churches,” she said. “Fold your hands together. Here’s the church and here’s the steeple, open the doors and there’s…” The awful truth of her own actions struck her. The very thing she had feared that the children would do, she had done. As she stood there speechless, the little girl sitting next to the one-armed boy reached over with her left hand and placed it up to his right hand and said, “Davey, let’s make the church together.”

There isn’t one of us who doesn’t relate to feelings of inadequacy. I don’t even want to start trying to count the number of times I have backed away from an opportunity because of doubt and fear that I was not capable. But God has people prepared to step in and step up. People who will be strong where we are weak. People who will encourage us. People who will put their hands together with ours and accomplish the work of God.

There’s a Bible story that illustrates how God provides for our inadequacies.

Exodus 4:13-16  “But Moses said, “O Lord, please send someone else to do it.” Then the LORD’S anger burned against Moses and he said, “What about your brother, Aaron the Levite? I know he can speak well. He is already on his way to meet you, and his heart will be glad when he sees you. You shall speak to him and put words in his mouth; I will help both of you speak and will teach you what to do. He will speak to the people for you, and it will be as if he were your mouth and as if you were God to him.” 

God meets our needs. When we were incapable of changing the condition of our lives in relation to sin, God sent Jesus to step in for us and step up to the cross. Jesus became our eternal Advocate. He stands before the Father in heaven and continually represents us. (1 John 2:1) As a part of His advocacy program, He has sent His Spirit to dwell in us as our ever-present guide and helper. Just think, there is never a reason to feel inadequate, because the fullness of God dwells within us and empowers us to accomplish our unique purpose in the body of Christ. Because we have an Advocate, we are adequate!

 The VBS story is a great parable of how we are to come together in the Body of Christ as advocates for one another. Somewhere, probably closer to you than you think, is a person who feels inadequate. They feel handicapped. They feel unneeded. They feel unable to participate and contribute. You can make a difference. You are God’s advocate to them. And something amazing happens when you reach out to help them – you will find them helping you as well. Moses needed a spokesman. Aaron needed direction. Together they conquered a nation.

 There’s no telling how much God can accomplish through people who get connected. Hearts will be made glad when people see you making a difference. Inadequacies will be overwhelmed by partnership. People will see and hear God.

So today, let’s change the statement of Moses by adding two words – “O Lord, please send someone else to do it with me.” Then be willing to be either Moses or Aaron. Together we can make a difference because we have an Advocate who makes us adequate.

Pastor John

LifeLink Devotions

Monday, May 30, 2022

HAPPY MEMORIAL DAY!

Exodus 3:7-10  “The LORD said, “I have indeed seen the misery of my people in Egypt. I have heard them crying out because of their slave drivers, and I am concerned about their suffering. So I have come down to rescue them from the hand of the Egyptians and to bring them up out of that land into a good and spacious land, a land flowing with milk and honey. And now the cry of the Israelites has reached me, and I have seen the way the Egyptians are oppressing them. So now, go. I am sending you to Pharaoh to bring my people the Israelites out of Egypt.”

In the Bible, Moses made a difference because he was willing to rescue people from injustice. As a young official in Egypt, he stepped in and rescued one of his countrymen who was being beaten, and he killed the tormentor. Moses was a man who saw injustice and took steps to rescue those caught in its bondage. God knew Moses was the man to accomplish a dangerous rescue mission. So he sent him back to Egypt to bring His people out of slavery and direct them to the Promised Land.

Years ago, the coastal communities of England established rescue stations where men prepared to assist ships that had crashed on the rocks. During one particularly terrible storm that swept the Atlantic and hurled huge waves upon the coast a ship was thrown on the rocks. It was a dark night, and the storm intensified as the night deepened. Fires were kindled all along the shore to help those in need. The lifeboat was manned. Out through the breakers and into the storm they went to the rescue. When they returned, a man named John Holden, who stood upon the shore, cried out, “Do you have all the ship’s company?”

The rescuers answered, “All but one man.”  

“Why did you not get him?”

“Well, our strength was nearly gone, and we knew if we stayed any longer, we would have all been lost to the sea.”

Then John Holden said: “These men who have been to the rescue are nearly exhausted. Who here will go with me to rescue the one man?” Six sturdy fellows promptly came forward. Then John Holden’s mother threw her arms around his neck and said, “John, don’t you go! Your father was swallowed up by the angry ocean, and your brother William went to sea two years ago and I fear that he is lost, too. You are the pillar of my life and my only dependence. Who will care for me if the sea swallows you also?” 

Then John Holden, with a firm, strong grasp, removed her arms from his neck and said to her, “There is a man drowning out there, and I must go. If the sea should swallow me, God will take care of you; I’m sure He will.” Kissing her cheek, he turned and stepped into the lifeboat.  They pushed out into the breakers and rowed to the wreck. They found the man still clinging to the rigging, and getting him into the boat, they pulled back to the shore. As the boat neared the shore, someone shouted, “Have you found the man?” “Yes,” answered John Holden, “we have him, and it is my brother William.”

The mission of God is the rescue of mankind. The human race has been hijacked and held hostage by the ultimate terrorist. God has already paid the ransom by sacrificing His own Son on the cross. But the terrorist has not informed the captives that they are free to go. They need to be rescued, and God has called us to man the boats. Only one thing is stopping us from accomplishing the rescue – we care more for ourselves then we do for the lives of those who are in distress. We are more like the mother than we are the brother who cared about another. And yet, when the needs of the other were considered first, the needs of everyone were met.

It is time for us to join the mission of God. Someone made a difference in each of our lives because they were on a rescue mission. Whose life will you attempt to rescue today?

Pastor John

LifeLink Devotions

Friday, May 27, 2022

Genesis 50:19-21    “But Joseph said to them, “Don’t be afraid. Am I in the place of God? You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives. So then, don’t be afraid. I will provide for you and your children.” And he reassured them and spoke kindly to them.” 

After all that Joseph had been subjected to because of his brothers’ sins against him, he forgave them. He didn’t hold a grudge. He didn’t seek revenge. He didn’t try to get even. Instead, he restored them and cared for them, providing for their every need. He built them back up through reassuring and kind words. He truly made a difference.

Forgiveness makes all the difference. We can make a significant difference in the lives of others if we will forgive them. But how is that possible, given the hurts and sufferings they have caused us. We have been given a standard of forgiveness in Scripture. The Apostle Paul says to the church at Colossae, “Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” 

That’s a pretty high standard. I’m supposed to forgive others the way Jesus forgave me? Yes! I’ll let you in on a key principle that I discovered just this morning – forgiveness is possible when we consider the purpose of God ahead of our own hurts. Let’s go back and look at the story of Joseph. One of the greatest statements about forgiveness in all of Scripture is made by Joseph when he says, ”You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.” The choices Joseph made were not dictated by the choices of others, but by the purpose of God. He was not influenced by the hurts he had suffered, but by the things God was accomplishing through those hurts. He had his eyes clearly focused on the bigger picture.

When we learn to get our eyes off of ourselves and focused on what God is doing, we will be willing to endure any suffering for the sake of God’s purpose. That’s how Jesus was able to forgive us. Was he hurt by our sin? Did he suffer because of our sin? Of course! Yet he forgave us, because he was focused on the purpose of God rather than what He was suffering.

In the story, Joseph’s brothers came to him with proper attitudes of responsibility and humility. Yet there was no need for those attitudes to be present for love to be expressed. Joseph said, “Am I in the place of God?” In other words, “What right do I have to condemn you and hold a grudge when it is God’s place alone to judge the hearts of men?” This was Joseph’s heart before he even knew what his brothers were thinking.Joseph did not allow his own hurts to come before his acknowledgment of God. God’s love had so permeated his heart that his hurts had been long before dissolved into forgiveness.

God did the same thing for us. “God demonstrated his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” (Romans 5:8) 

We can make a difference in someone else’s life today by having a spirit of forgiveness even if they have done nothing to indicate they want it. Forgive them. Pull the hurts from your heart and look at the purpose of God. He’s saving people’s lives by forgiving them. Let’s join Him in that mission.

Pastor John

LifeLink Devotions

Thursday, May 26, 2022

Genesis 45:4-7   “Then Joseph said to his brothers, “Come close to me.” When they had done so, he said, “I am your brother Joseph, the one you sold into Egypt! And now, do not be distressed and do not be angry with yourselves for selling me here, because it was to save lives that God sent me ahead of you. For two years now there has been famine in the land, and for the next five years there will not be plowing and reaping. But God sent me ahead of you to preserve for you a remnant on earth and to save your lives by a great deliverance.”

Joseph’s life is an incredible story of faith. He made a difference for so many people because he was able to look beyond the immediate circumstances and trust God to be working to bring about a result that would be good for all. People who can see God at work even when all human rationale says otherwise are people who really make a difference.

In the story, Joseph was the favored son of his father Jacob, who would later be called Israel. Joseph had been born to Jacob in his old age, so he received very special attention. His brothers were jealous. They plotted to eliminate him. The plan was changed at the last minute and resulted in Joseph being sold into slavery, eventually in Egypt. While there, he proved himself a worthy leader, and was placed in charge of the household of one of Pharaoh’s officials. After being falsely accused of rape, he was imprisoned. Then, after earning the respect of both prisoners and guards, he was overlooked for release after being promised he would be. Finally, after interpreting a dream for the Pharaoh, he was recognized as the most discerning and wise man in Egypt and placed in charge of the palace and the whole land of Egypt. All this by the time he was thirty years old.

Joseph used his wisdom to plan for the future. During times of abundance, he put away a portion of the crops and stored them in reserve for the times when there would be drought. When the famine came, countries from all over the world came to Egypt to buy grain. Meanwhile, Jacob, who thought his son Joseph was dead, sent his brothers to Egypt to get grain. Then, after that supply was exhausted, he sent them again. It was during this trip that Joseph decided to reveal himself to his brothers. Imagine the fear that must have overwhelmed their hearts and minds when they realized that the teenager they had sold into slavery now held power over their very lives. Some would call it karma; others might say that what goes around comes around. Here was Joseph’s chance to get even and even ahead.

But not Joseph. He was a man who walked by faith and not by sight. He trusted God. He saw the bigger picture. People who can see the bigger picture make a difference. It’s easy to get bogged down in the minutia of the immediate. It’s stressful to be overwhelmed by the details. It’s only when someone comes along and reminds us of the bigger picture that we are relieved. We need people around us who can see the whole puzzle, or who at least can show us how to trust the One who created the picture.

Life is full of uncertainty right now. But then, it always has been. There’s an economic crisis causing fear. People who had done nothing wrong end up paying a high price for the bad choices of others. There’s a political crisis destroying the confidence may have in our government. There’s a spiritual crisis as our culture increasingly rejects Jesus Christ. But in these critical times, we have two choices – the same choices Joseph had. We can turn to the world for our solutions, or we can turn to the God who holds the world in His hands. Jesus holds the answers to all the everyday problems we face. We could  try to deal with our problems on our own without a belief in Jesus Christ, but there will be no permanent solutions and the end result will be failure and destruction. But with a faith in Jesus Christ that looks beyond the immediate, we realize how insignificant the financial crisis is in comparison with the big picture of God’s plan for the eternal redemption of people’s souls.

There is a lot of talk about what we are going to do to rescue America from financial collapse. As you get involved in those discussions, please make sure one thing is perfectly clear: your faith is in the plan and purpose of God and not the politics of the people. This is the time when faith is needed most, and people of faith must lead. Do not be distressed. God has this under control. His plan is being perfected. His purpose is being fulfilled. His people have been sent ahead to provide for a great deliverance, and that deliverance is spiritual, not financial. Keep your focus on Christ, and walk by faith, not sight. You will make a difference.

Pastor John

LifeLink Devotions

Wednesday, May 25, 2022

Luke 5:31-32  “Jesus answered them, “It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.”

From a physical perspective, many of us know the difference a good surgeon has made in our lives. I have had a nearly ruptured appendix removed, two hernias repaired, major sinus reconstruction, and knee surgery. None of those surgeries was pleasant, but each was necessary to restore physical health.

Today’s story of a person who made a difference comes from Inge. Inge shares that she needed surgery. Spiritual surgery. It wouldn’t be pleasant, but it was essential for spiritual health. Here’s her story.

“The person who has made the biggest impact on my life is Dr. Henry Brandt, a Christian psychologist.  He was married to a good friend of mine whom I met on the mission field. When it became apparent that I was a pretty miserable Christian (and a missionary at that!), my friend Marcey invited me to stay with her and Dr. Brandt to figure out what the problem might be.  Dr. Brandt pulled no punches.  He asked me right off if I was willing to make changes in my life – because if I wasn’t, then he saw no need to waste his time or mine.  As he took me through the Scriptures, it didn’t take long for me to realize that my problem was sin.  I had been pretending to be someone I wasn’t.  Always eager to say yes to anything asked of me (isn’t that what missionaries do?), I was actually saying “no” on the inside.  Outwardly I was a helpful missionary, but inside I was grumbling and complaining and not at all happy.  As a skillful surgeon, Dr. Brandt used God’s Word to reveal other areas of my life that needed changing.  It took some time, but gradually, as I acknowledged my sin and repented before God, I changed from a miserable Christian into a joyful one. He taught me what it means to “walk in the spirit” and he always said that circumstances do not create our spirit, they reveal our spirit.  So if I get mad because I have to wait in line at the grocery store, it’s not the waiting in line that makes me angry, the waiting merely reveals the anger that’s already inside of me.  He taught me that anger is only one letter away from danger and I needed to pay attention when my circumstances revealed a negative spirit in me and to deal with it right away and not let it fester.  Dr. Brandt not only taught me how to live out biblical principles, he modeled it!  He is the most Christ-like person I’ve ever met and I’ll be forever grateful for having known him. God used Dr. Brandt to teach me important lessons that have stuck with me and will enable me to be a better missionary this time around!”

You may have a need right now for some spiritual surgery. Believe it or not, God has qualified and gifted some people near you in your life to perform it. It may be your pastor, your elder, a friend, or a family member. They are qualified because God has provided them with the surgical instrument necessary to make the proper incisions. That instrument is wisdom, and God has granted it to anyone in Christ who asks for it. Don’t try to operate on yourself. The Great Physician has equipped a staff of spiritual surgeons all around you. Make an appointment with one of them and trust their diagnosis. You will find the healing you are longing for.

Pastor John

LifeLink Devotions

Tuesday, May 24, 2022

Sometimes encouragement and challenge come in the form of admonition or rebuke. We don’t like those times of confrontation, but they are necessary. Our attitude towards the people who have the courage to address our issues can make all the difference.

In today’s Scripture, Jesus must address a serious issue in Peter’s thinking. He does it bluntly and firmly, but not without proper foundation and teaching of Kingdom principles.

Matthew 16:22-25  “Peter took him aside and began to rebuke him. “Never, Lord!” he said. “This shall never happen to you!” Jesus turned and said to Peter, “Get behind me, Satan! You are a stumbling block to me; you do not have in mind the things of God, but the things of men.”  

In the long run, His confrontation with His disciples made a difference in their lives. He challenged them and encouraged them, even though at the time they may not have thought it very encouraging.

Here’s a story of encouragement and challenge from one of our readers named Terri, who said a former boss she had made a real difference in her life.

“In 1991 I was an executive assistant to a Corporate VP.  He and I got along well, but in all honesty, he was flakey (for lack of a better description) and had personal problems that I was unaware of at the time.  Part of my job was making him look good, so I did my best to “cover for him” when he wouldn’t make it in for an executive meeting—and I thought I was doing a good job of it.  But over the course of a couple years, I realized I had also become “flakey” – coming in when I wanted to and leaving when I wanted to.  I had no heart left in my job but continued to cruise through for the paycheck, knowing my boss would always “cover for me” as I did for him.

“One afternoon he had a meeting with his boss, the Sr. VP. After the meeting he asked me to go with him into a conference room.  He told me that he had just been let go from the company.  It was no secret that his boss didn’t like him. However, I found out right then that his boss also did not like me by default.  I would be given a couple weeks at the company to search for other internal opportunities and then would also be let go.

“Within 15 minutes of finishing that discussion with my boss the Sr. VP came down the hall and told me quite sternly to get up to his office.  His administrator had gone into labor 2 months earlier than expected and he let me know (in no uncertain terms) that I would fill in for her while she was gone. He told me what he had observed about me, and that he felt I was pretty much worthless, but that I was his only option until he could find a replacement.  I could look for other opportunities in the company but was told that he would never provide a reference for me.  I wanted to walk out the door and never come back, but I didn’t.  I knew I was the best at what I did and just hoped I had the opportunity to prove that. My intentions were out of spite, however. 

“A month later, when I arrived at the office (yes, about ½ hour late because I thought he was scheduled for a meeting), he was sitting in his office with the HR manager and asked me to join them.  I was provided with an official warning letter that I would be terminated immediately if I failed to be on time one more morning. I signed the letter to acknowledge I understood, and the HR manager left the office.  My boss just sat there and stared at me with a serious look on his face.  The silence drove me insane, and I started trying to ramble to him about my promises of doing better. He held his hand up for me to stop talking. 

“He asked me how long I thought it took to change something.  Again my nervous rambling started. He held up his hand for me to stop talking again and said, “it takes that long” and snapped his fingers.  He continued “the only thing that takes time is making the decision to change.  Once you are serious and make the decision to change, it happens like that (again, snapping his fingers).”  His gaze never left my eyes, and he was talking sincerely—a side of him I felt I’d never seen before.  It was a profound moment for me because I realized that he was absolutely right. I also realized he must think I’m worth something to even take the time to have this brief exchanged.

“Instantaneously my attitude changed, which triggered a series of changes in my work life and personal life.  He and I formed one of the best working relationships I’ve ever had in my career.  Although 17 years later, he is no longer with the company, I still am and continue to grow professionally from the difference he made in my life. We still keep in touch, and I’ve had the opportunity to thank him for being someone who made a difference in my life.“

Sometimes we need people who will be blunt and firm with us, especially when we understand that they are doing it for our good. If we can get past the initial defense mechanisms of pride designed to protect us from hurt, we will probably see the potential benefit of growth. We all need to listen to the truth that is being spoken rather than reacting to how it is being presented. Most people with the courage to challenge us are doing it for the right reason. Listen to them. It will make a difference.

Pastor John

LifeLink Devotions

Monday, May 23, 2022

As a young man I was very confused. Everything I did was an attempt to make people like me. Most of it failed miserably and had the opposite result. If you were to ask anyone from my high school graduating class what I was like, they would probably use the word “jerk” to describe me. I’m not making this up – it’s true. When I got to college, I was able to create a new persona and made it work for a while. But I was still not living out the life of Christ in me. I was trying to earn the favor of people by adapting to whatever I thought they wanted me to be. I never believed I was worth much, which was pride in a most dangerous form.

In the Spring of my freshman year of college, I got a phone call from my brother Paul. He was planning on attending the same college. He asked me if he could by my roommate for the coming year. I was overwhelmed. I think it was one of the best days of my life. My younger brother, whom I envied for his popularity and abilities, wanted to bunk with me. Of course I said yes. When we arrived at school that year, we immediately began making plans with the other guys on our dorm floor for our intramural football and basketball teams. Of course, my brother would be the quarterback, the position he played in high school. I never got to play high school football, but I played endless hours with my brother in the yard when I was younger. I knew him, and I discovered that he knew me. We became an unstoppable combination of touchdown passes.

Then basketball season came. I had played on the college freshman team, but when my brother arrived,  I decided to play intramural ball with him. At five foot eleven inches I was the tallest guy on our dorm floor, so I got appointed to play center, a position I had never played before. One of our first games was against the faculty, and the head basketball coach was on that team. He stood six foot ten and weighed at least 250. I was a mere 145 pounds. Of course, I was getting manhandled inside and we were losing the game. At halftime my brother looked at me and said, “John, we need you. You can do better. Take control of the inside and get us some rebounds.” I’ve honestly never had anyone tell me anything more personally significant in my life. I was needed. Someone believed in me. Someone trusted my abilities. It was a life-changing moment for me.

The second half was completely different. I discovered that the coach couldn’t jump very well, but I could. I discovered he was slow, and I was quick. I discovered I could exert some strength and actually move him around. I had the most fun of my life. We won the game and went on to win a lot more as well. All because one person, my brother, saw past my failures and flaws, and combined encouragement with a challenge. He made a difference in my life.

Jesus did that for Peter, too.  In John 21:16we read,  “Again Jesus said, “Simon son of John, do you truly love me?” He answered, “Yes, Lord, you know that I love you.” Jesus said, “Take care of my sheep.”

After denying Christ three times and giving up hope of ever accomplishing anything of value, he had gone back to fishing. Jesus meets him where he was and combines encouragement with challenge. He takes whatever level of love Peter is able to give Him and provides him an opportunity to use it to do something great. It was Peter’s life-changing moment.

How many people do you know who need encouragement combined with challenge? They don’t need us to point out their flaws. They don’t need to be reminded of their dysfunctions. They need someone to believe in them. How will they ever know that God believes in them if God’s people don’t? Everyone is of value to God. He died for all. He wants to save all. So find one of them today and tell them something that encourages them and gives them the courage to accept a challenge. Then, when they know you care, they will want to know why you care. That’s when you get to tell them about Jesus. It will change their life.

Pastor John

LifeLink Devotions

Friday, May 20, 2022

Jesus was willing to touch the untouchable. His compassion was obvious. His mercy was extensive. His grace was unending.

Matthew 8:1-3   “When he came down from the mountainside, large crowds followed him. A man with leprosy came and knelt before him and said, “Lord, if you are willing, you can make me clean.” Jesus reached out his hand and touched the man. “I am willing,” he said. “Be clean!” Immediately he was cured of his leprosy.”

As His followers – His disciples – Jesus has energized us with His indwelling Spirit to be the same. We will make a difference when we become Jesus to those in need. When we extend our hands to the hurting and the helpless, we are extended the hands of Jesus to them.

Here’s a testimony of the difference we can make when we reach out and touch others with the compassion of Christ. It comes from a friend named Deb.

“The people in my Small Group made a big difference in my life. When my first husband died in an accident when I was pregnant with my first child, my Small Group was a big support to me. In so many ways, they tried to fill the void left in my life. They helped me remember to get the oil changed in the car, a job my husband would have done. They had me over for dinner, they threw a surprise birthday party for me, and called if they missed me at church. After the baby was born, they offered to babysit, and they let me bring him, even though he was often fussy and noisy, to our Bible studies. And that first Christmas, they helped me set up my Christmas tree with all the trimmings. Some people in those days seemingly fell out of my life as I suppose they didn’t know what to say or do and dealing with grief made them uncomfortable. Others came closer and were an encouragement to me. Those are the ones who made a difference. They were Jesus’ hands and feet, Jesus “with skin on” in my life. They are still my dear friends to this day!”

Don’t be someone who pulls away because you are uncomfortable with or fearful of another person’s condition. Reach out and touch them. Be willing. You will make a difference.

Pastor John