Encouragement for Suffering

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Monday, November 12, 2018

Hebrews 12:4 – 8  In your struggle against sin, you have not yet resisted to the point of shedding your blood.  And you have forgotten that word of encouragement that addresses you as sons: “My son, do not make light of the Lord’s discipline, and do not lose heart when he rebukes you, because the Lord disciplines those he loves, and he punishes everyone he accepts as a son.” Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as sons. For what son is not disciplined by his father? If you are not disciplined (and everyone undergoes discipline), then you are illegitimate children and not true sons.

The subject of encouragement we have been studying in these devotionals is essential if we are going to endure the hardships we all experience in life. The writer of Hebrews expresses the connection between encouragement and endurance when He writes about both in today’s Scripture passage. Make sure you have read it.

If the average person who calls himself a Christian was asked how he knows he is a son of God, he would probably not come up with the answer described in today’s Bible verses. Granted, it is not the only answer, but it is a significant one. In addition to the more common responses like “I obey God’s commands” (1 John 5:2), “I love the brothers and sisters in Christ” (1 John 3:10), and “I hate sin” (1 John 5:18), we should also be able to say that we know we are a child of God because He disciplines us. It may not be the first response we think of, but it is significant because the Bible has encouragement connected with it.

Hardship is a universal fact of life. Everyone suffers in one way or another – sometimes in more than one way at the same time. How are we supposed to be encouraged when we are so deeply affected by suffering?

There are two critical principles we must understand. First, God addresses us with words of encouragement as His children. And second, we must consider the possibility that some of our suffering is disciplinary in nature.

There are basically two types of suffering: that which is caused by the consequences of our own sin; and that which is caused by our stand against sin.

The Christian who sins is disciplined by God because God loves him as a son, and wants his behavior to change. This is corrective discipline. The Christian who struggles against sin and then suffers for it is also being disciplined. It is not corrective discipline but rather constructive discipline. His character is being constructed to be the character of Christ.

Both types of discipline are for our good, and it is good for us to submit to both of them. Later in this passage in Hebrews we read this: God disciplines us for our good that we may share in his holiness. No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.

Consider suffering in the context of the maturing process that should occur in all Christian’s lives. As a father and a grandfather, I would not be satisfied if my children and their children stayed at the level of needing corrective discipline. As they grow and mature, there should be less correction and more construction of character. A much higher level of intimacy is achieved between parent and child when construction of character is being accomplished.

That is to be the model for our Christian walk as well. As we grow in our faith, there should be less sin to struggle with and more strength to struggle against sin. Then we will experience the depth of intimacy with Christ that He said is possible. We will understand the fullness and abundance of life that He promised.

Do not be satisfied with sin. Do not consider it a necessary reality of human existence. You do not have to live with sin and its consequences. You can grow up into a Christian who struggles against sin rather than with sin. You will still have to endure hardships, but they will not be riddled with guilt and shame.

Sinful choices will bring painful consequences and shameful experiences.

Sacred choices may result in painful consequences which the world intends to shame us. But we have One who has given us a model to follow. Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. 3Consider him who endured such opposition from sinful men, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart. (emphasis mine).

Be encouraged. God speaks words of encouragement to you as His child. He loves you and wants you to correct what’s wrong and grow in the character of His Son. If you are sinning and suffering for it, God is disciplining you because you are His child so that you can grow up. If you are struggling against sin and suffering for it, God is disciplining you as His son to make you just like His Son. Do not grow weary of the discipline. Do not lose heart. You are being trained to share in the holiness of God. That’s good!

Pastor John

God’s Encourager

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Friday, November 9, 2018

2 Thessalonians 2:16 – 17  May our Lord Jesus Christ himself and God our Father, who loved us and by his grace gave us eternal encouragement and good hope, encourage your hearts and strengthen you in every good deed and word.

Today is one of those days. It should be different because it’s Friday, but it feels like a Monday. I can’t blame it on anything that happened since Sunday because everything was fantastic. I can’t blame it on a lack of understanding or appreciation of my permanent relationship with Jesus Christ because I know in my heart the eternal gift God has given me by His grace. But it’s one of those days nonetheless, when I want to stay in bed and not do anything. My mind is captured by thoughts of escape from the daily routine (I wanted to say grind but that sounds so bleak). I want a day with no responsibility and no interruptions. I’m sure you can relate and that you have had days like this. That’s why I am so thankful for today’s verse of Scripture. It tells me I am normal to feel this way.

Paul states that there are two aspects to encouragement from God that are equally important in our lives. First, there is the encouragement that comes from knowing that we are eternally His and that the hope of eternity is always at work in our lives. On most days this is sufficient to keep us going. With our eyes fixed on the finish line and the rewards of glory in the presence of Jesus Christ, we press on. The knowledge of the love of God and His gift of grace to us motivate us to live faithfully in His service. But second, with an understanding of human nature and its emotional instability, Paul asks God to encourage our hearts for the everyday routine. Looking at the eternal does not eliminate the need to deal with the immediate, and God knew we would need daily help with the immediate.

The word translated encourage in these verses literally means to call near. It is the same basic word that Jesus uses to describe the Holy Spirit when He told the disciples that he would send them a Comforter. This morning as I lay in bed trying to motivate myself to get up, I rolled over and wrapped the down comforter on our bed tightly around me, pulling it up close to my face. It is named well. It was so comforting. I loved the feeling of contentment and security it produced. But comforters are only able to do that when we draw them near to us. Looking at one from across the room never accomplishes that.

When we came to Christ for salvation, He sent the Comforter to wrap us up with the contentment and security of our eternal relationship with God. But our daily routines draw us, as it were, out from under the comforter. The promise of glory in heaven is folded neatly on the bottom of the bed when we head out to tackle the necessary obligations of the day. Every so often we may take a look at the Comforter, and we may even long for the end of the day when we can crawl back under it and snuggle up. Sometimes we may even do that in the middle of the day. But most of the time we just look at the comforter from across the room.

But looking at eternity from across the room doesn’t make life better. Wouldn’t it be nice if we could carry the comforter around with us all day, like Linus’ security blanket, so that we felt safe all the time?

That’s exactly what God knew we would need, and He did it for every one of His children. God did more than simply wrap us up with the Comforter – He made it possible for us to have the Comforter with us every moment of every day. The Comforter indwells us and is constantly encouraging us in our everyday routine. The eternal hope of glory became our daily help for the grind. We are encouraged by His presence to carry out every good deed and word. God provides comfort, contentment, and security for the immediate while we wait for the eternal. We have been granted constant nearness to God.

Suddenly today is not one of those days anymore. It has become one of God’s days. With my eyes fixed on the finish line, I run the race that is set before me because the Author and Finisher of my faith is running right with me. His presence is not just the reward at the end of the race; it is the reality during the race.

So, take your eyes off the eternal for a moment, and look at the immediate. You’ll see Jesus there, giving you comfort, encouragement, contentment, and security. Keep running. Jesus will give you the strength because He gave you the reason for running in the first place.

Pastor John

Look Up

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Thursday, November 8, 2018

1 Thessalonians 4:13 – 18 (NIV) 13Brothers, we do not want you to be ignorant about those who fall asleep, or to grieve like the rest of men, who have no hope.  14We believe that Jesus died and rose again and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him.  15According to the Lord’s own word, we tell you that we who are still alive, who are left till the coming of the Lord, will certainly not precede those who have fallen asleep.  16For the Lord himself will come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet call of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first.  17After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever.  18Therefore encourage each other with these words.

There are a variety of encouraging responses we could share with a person who has just shared their hurts, disappointments, and discouragements with us. We could tell them about our own struggle with some of those same issues and how we got through it. We could give examples of other people who have survived. We could try and refocus their attention on some other area of life that is showing signs of success. Or we could just sit and listen and comfort them with our friendship and understanding.

One response that probably doesn’t get used very much or even considered in such times of suffering is to talk about the imminent return of Jesus Christ. I wonder how people would respond to us if after intimately sharing their hurts and pains we said, “I understand, but Jesus may come back today.”

At the church in Thessalonica there was much discouragement. Paul had been able to spend only three weeks with these new Christians when he planted this church. He had not had sufficient time to adequately disciple them to stand against the trials that would come because of their new faith. The people of the church were being persecuted by their own countrymen, some even to the point of death. Paul needed to get them some basic information that would strengthen them and encourage them to remain true to the faith.

In his letter to them he reminds them of the quality of their faith. He tells them how encouraged he is by the reports of their faith and works. He sent Timothy to them to encourage them, and Timothy returned with a great report of their growth and commitment. He tells them how well they have done at imitating the example of his own life of perseverance and productivity for Christ. And yet Paul knows there is still one thing necessary to truly encourage them and keep them from letting the hurts and pains of everyday life drag them down into despair. They must keep their hearts and minds focused on the return of Jesus Christ to take them to glory, or the world would quickly smother them. The imminent return of Jesus Christ to rescue us from this world of sin and suffering is the one thing that truly gives us hope and encouragement to press on.

Years ago, when I was spending time with my mother before she died, I observed this hope in her life. Not a day went by that she didn’t look for the return of Jesus. She wanted Him to come back and take all of us to glory together. Even as her body weakened and the reality of the day of her death approached she didn’t stop looking for Jesus to return. The knowledge that all of life’s losses would be totally obliterated by the gain of glory kept her smiling and at peace right to the end. She was encouraged by the promise that Jesus was coming for her, and she was looking for Him. She was not looking for man’s solutions to earth’s problems. She was looking for Jesus. She prayed for healing so that she might live longer on the earth, but she was content in knowing that the ultimate healing is to live forever in glory. One of the songs she used to sing was, “To be with Him will crown it all.” She not only sang it, she lived it.

Maybe you and I have spent too much time trying to encourage others by looking for man’s solutions to earth’s problems. I think it’s time we add some new responses to our vocabulary that can be shared with hurting people. These responses will be an encouragement to others if we truly believe them and live them ourselves.

Here are some ways to encourage others with the hope of the imminent return of Jesus. I’m sure you will be able to think of more. Don’t let Satan convince you that they are shallow or unfeeling or insensitive or that they lack true understanding and compassion. They are the greatest words of hope anyone can hear. Use them to strengthen your own faith, and then use them to encourage others.

  • It will be worth it all when we see Jesus.
  • Because He lives we can face tomorrow.
  • All this will seem so small when we see Jesus.
  • Look at the present through the promise – Jesus is coming.
  • And if Jesus comes back today why will this matter?

Let me close with the words of a great hymn written in 1955 by Jim Hill (CCLI License #545997). Be encouraged, and use this to encourage others.

There is a coming day when no heartaches shall come-

No more clouds in the sky, no more tears to dim the eye.

All is peace forever more on that happy golden shore.

What a day, glorious day that will be.

There’ll be no sorrow there, no more burdens to bear,

No more sickness, no pain, no more parting over there.

And forever I will be with the One who died for me.

What a day, glorious day that will be.

What a day that will be when my Jesus I shall see,

And I look upon His face, the One who saved me by His grace.

When He takes me by His hand and leads me through the promised land,

What a day, glorious day that will be.

Pastor John

Rise Up

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Wednesday, November 7, 2018

Romans 15:4 – 6  For everything that was written in the past was written to teach us, so that through endurance and the encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope. 5May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you a spirit of unity among yourselves as you follow Christ Jesus,  6so that with one heart and mouth you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.

Some days it’s hard to get going. It’s easy to be convinced at the beginning of the day that the events of the day will produce a less than desirable end to the day. Such emotional speculation produces the struggle to even get started. “Why try?” becomes the predominant question that influences our decision-making process. We begin to wonder if anyone else has ever had to go through what we are experiencing. And if they did, how did they survive and keep going? We start to believe that our situation is uniquely difficult and uniformly misunderstood by others. There is no one to whom we can relate or on whom we can rely. We are alone to face the trouble, and no one seems to care. We might as well quit.

Sounds depressing, doesn’t it? But it is far too often true of our attitudes when times get tough. Several days ago, I received an email from one of our church members and it contained a story I want to share with you.

One day I decided to quit. I quit my job, my relationship, my spirituality. I wanted to quit my life. I went to the woods to have one last talk with God.

“God”, I said. “Can you give me one good reason not to quit?”

His answer surprised me. “Look around”, He said. “Do you see the fern and the bamboo?”

“Yes”, I replied.

“When I planted the fern and the bamboo seeds, I took very good care of them. I gave them light. I gave them water. The fern quickly grew from the earth. Its brilliant green covered the floor. Yet nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo.

In the second year the fern grew more vibrant and plentiful. And again, nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo.”

He said, “In year three there was still nothing from the bamboo seed. But I would not quit. In year four, again, there was nothing from the bamboo seed. I would not quit.”

He said, “Then in the fifth year a tiny sprout emerged from the earth. Compared to the fern, it was seemingly small and insignificant, but just six months later the bamboo rose to over 100 feet tall. It had spent the five years growing roots. Those roots made it strong and gave it what it needed to survive. I would not give any of my creations a challenge it could not handle.”

He said to me, “Did you know, my child, that all this time you have been struggling, you have actually been growing roots? I would not quit on the bamboo. I will never quit on you. Don’t compare yourself to others. The bamboo had a different purpose than the fern. Yet they both make the forest beautiful. Your time will come.”

God said to me, “You will rise high.”

“How high should I rise?” I asked.

“How high will the bamboo rise?” He asked in return.

“As high as it can?” I questioned.

“Yes.” He said, “Give me glory by rising as high as you can.”

Somewhere in God’s Word there is an example of someone who struggled as you are. The Bible is full of stories of God’s faithfulness to bring His glory out of human tragedy. Search them out. Study them. Let your knowledge of God’s character – as seen in His activity in other people’s lives – encourage you to trust God to raise you up above your circumstances. Others have done it – so can you. God himself will encourage you and give you endurance to press on.

Don’t quit.

Keep trying.

God has a glorious result planned, and if you stop now you’ll miss it. It may seem like your life is covered in dirt and you can’t see through it, but let me tell you what I see from out here on this side of the dirt. I see God warming the dirt with the Son. I see God watering the dirt with the Spirit. And wait, I think I see a sprout poking through the dirt. It looks a lot like the top of your head, and any moment now your eyes are going to see God’s plan.

Rise up, and rise as high as you can for the glory of God. You’ve been given a strong root system grounded in the Word of God. Trust it and rise as high as you can.

Pastor John

Grace Encourages

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Tuesday, November 6, 2018

Acts 11:22 – 24 News of this reached the ears of the church at Jerusalem, and they sent Barnabas to Antioch.  23When he arrived and saw the evidence of the grace of God, he was glad and encouraged them all to remain true to the Lord with all their hearts.  24He was a good man, full of the Holy Spirit and faith, and a great number of people were brought to the Lord.

The early church is in transition. God is moving the Jewish people out of their comfort zones by opening the door of the church to Gentiles. When the Apostles in Jerusalem heard that Greeks and Romans were getting saved, they sent Barnabas to the city of Antioch to check on what was happening. The choice of Barnabas was significant. The Apostles could have sent someone with more theological training to evaluate the truth of what was happening. They could have sent someone with more authority who could have put a stop to any non-Jewish activity. But they chose the man who was known as an encourager. This indicates that the Apostles were not closed-minded about the church but were already convinced that this was a move of God. They wanted to send someone who would encourage these new believers and who could motivate them to remain true to the Lord with all their hearts.

When Barnabas arrived in Antioch he was overwhelmed with the evidence of the grace of God. He was thrilled to see that God’s grace for salvation was being offered to the Gentiles, and he was overjoyed that the Jews in Antioch were accepting the Gentiles as joint-heirs with Christ of all things in eternity. There was no racial discrimination or religious secularization taking place. All people who came to Christ for salvation were considered equals in the church.

What a marvelous testimony to the grace of God when all racial, cultural, social, and religious issues are removed as barriers to true fellowship. When the people of God who have met Jesus Christ as their Savior truly love and accept one another as equal members of the body of Christ, it is the full manifestation of the grace of God. Barnabas experienced that at Antioch, and he was glad. He encouraged the people to keep it up.

I want to encourage you to keep it up as well. Calvary is a marvelous place of grace, where people, no matter who they are, can meet God as they are, and begin a journey of growth that starts with acceptance by God and by other believers. The grace that is shown to people in our church is fantastic. When there are needs, we reach out and help. When people are hurting or rejoicing, we join with them in their pain or their celebrations.

Simple things mean so much when they are done in the grace of God. Recently our community of believers has had the opportunity to minister to several families in need. I received an email from one of the families we helped. It expresses perfectly the way that grace heals, and it encourages us to keep modeling it to anyone and everyone. I have permission from the family to share this information with you. I have removed the names so that God gets all the glory.

Dear Pastor John,

I was checking mail this morning and realized once again how much love was poured out on our family.  I did not believe there was a church that still practiced this kind of Grace.  I was so hurt when we came to you, but I have been persuaded that there is hope.  I want you to know that I have caught a glimpse of the risen Savior through the love and support of his people at Calvary.  God has not abandoned us.  For a while that is what I believed.  My husband and I are slowly coming out of our safe place and learning to trust again, only because our place of safety has changed.  We no longer need to trust in ourselves, but we can again put our trust in the Lord and lean on His people.  It was all of you just being you, consistently.  Thank You.

WOW! If you’ve been tempted to think that your time, energy, gifts, and words of encouragement have no impact, then go back and read the letter again. God is healing two people’s hearts through your gifts of grace. You are being an encouragement to someone else and they see the risen Christ in you. Keep it up! Stay true to the Lord with all your heart, and continue to model His grace.

People are noticing.

Pastor John

Generosity Encourages

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Monday, November 5, 2018

Acts 4:32 – 37  32All the believers were one in heart and mind. No one claimed that any of his possessions was his own, but they shared everything they had.  33With great power the apostles continued to testify to the resurrection of the Lord Jesus, and much grace was upon them all.  34There were no needy persons among them. For from time to time those who owned lands or houses sold them, brought the money from the sales  35and put it at the apostles’ feet, and it was distributed to anyone as he had need. 36Joseph, a Levite from Cyprus, whom the apostles called Barnabas (which means Son of Encouragement),  37sold a field he owned and brought the money and put it at the apostles’ feet.

In contrast to the philosophy of most Americans today, this passage of Scripture stands out as one of the most incredible statements of commitment to the Lord in the entire Bible. The church of Jesus Christ is brand new. It is not popular. Its members are being persecuted. It would be acceptable in our minds for the people to go into hiding and protect what they have. It would be expedient for them to keep quiet about their faith and resume a traditional social lifestyle. After all, one’s personal faith should not become a point of contention with culture, should it? Why should what we believe about God interfere with our social and economic pursuits? Why would anyone ever intentionally put themselves at risk of persecution or poverty?

We have a powerful propensity for the pursuit of worldly prosperity. We may make contributions to a good cause, but only to the extent that it is affordable and doesn’t interfere with our personal economic goals. What a huge dissimilarity exists between our attitudes today and the actions of the early church. While we pursue economic security through investments, the early church sacrificed their possessions to meet the immediate needs of people.

Now let me clarify – there is nothing wrong with being rich and secure, so long as we don’t put our trust in those riches to provide our security. Riches are a gift from God to be used for God’s purpose, not for self. We don’t have any indication that the people of the early church sold their only home or their only piece of land. In fact, the people who sold land and homes are described as having more than one (from time to time those who owned lands or houses). No one was asked to give up their only home. But those who had investments were not selfish with them and surrendered all their value to the Lord when it became necessary so that God’s purpose could be accomplished.

It is in this context that we are introduced to a man named Joseph, who had been given a new name by the Apostles. They determined that there was a characteristic of this man’s life that was worthy of recognition, and they gave him a name that described who he was. They called him Barnabas, which means Son of Encouragement. Barnabas modeled for us all how to encourage others by giving gifts to the Lord that will meet the needs of others.

Barnabas was a part of a Christian community that understood and accepted God’s purpose for them. They also understood the indwelling power of the Holy Spirit to accomplish that purpose. The Holy Spirit gives power to God’s people to boldly testify to the resurrection of Jesus from the dead. The early church believed that their number one priority was to tell the world about Jesus and not back down for any reason. All the believers were one in heart and mind about this. They knew their purpose and they determined to accomplish it at all cost.

That meant social rejection and persecution. Many lost their jobs. Many were financially insecure. But none was in need. Isn’t that incredible? There were no needy people among them. Every time a need was realized, someone who had plenty gave up what they had worked so hard to achieve so that the body of Christ could be cared for.

Barnabas is singled out as the prime example of one of the people who used their resources in this way. The first thing we learn about encouragement is that it requires the use of everything we own. If we are not willing to give up what we have for the sake of someone who has less, then our words of faith and encouragement are of no value.

Listen to what James the brother of Jesus says.  What good is it, my brothers, if a man claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save him? Suppose a brother or sister is without clothes and daily food. If one of you says to him, “Go, I wish you well; keep warm and well fed,” but does nothing about his physical needs, what good is it? In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.

Listen also to the Apostle John. If anyone has material possessions and sees his brother in need but has no pity on him, how can the love of God be in him? Dear children, let us not love with words or tongue but with actions and in truth. 

God places the highest priority on putting faith and love into action by encouraging others who are in need with sacrificial gifts of our resources.

I am proud to proclaim that there are many in my church who understand this, and we have been able to meet the needs of so many people because of the sacrificial gifts of these people. But there is so much more for that could be done if we truly had the attitude of the early church. Encouraging others begins with putting their needs ahead of our own personal financial goals and security. That is only possible if we truly trust God and believe that He will provide all our needs according to His riches in glory through Christ Jesus. If we say we have faith in God, then let’s live like we do. Let’s pursue His purpose and use whatever we have for His glory, trusting Him to provide for all our needs as He uses us to provide encouragement to others.  Maybe then the church will experience the power of God as it did in Acts, and we will see people saved from their sin and death.

Pastor John

What Kind of Brain Do You Have?

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Friday, November 2, 2018

Job 16:5 But my mouth would encourage you; comfort from my lips would bring you relief.

Do you have a “Why” brain, a “How” brain, or a “Who” brain? I am naturally a “How” brain. Since I was a small boy I wanted to know how things worked. I loved taking things apart and putting them back together, trying to use all the pieces with no leftovers. When God called me into the ministry I was planning on being a doctor. Knowing how things worked and using all the pieces would have been very important. I still ask lots of questions whenever I’m at the hospital. My mind has a deep desire to know how things work.

Some of you are “Why” brains. Do not confuse yourselves with people who are “Why use the brain” people. You are people who need to know why things happen the way they do. You may not care so much about how something works, but you certainly want to know why it should work. You are the people that need to have a purpose for everything. While I may be satisfied to know that something could work, you want to know why we should even try to make it work. And when something bad happens, your brain goes into overtime trying to figure out why it happened.

When God tested the faith of Job by allowing Satan to destroy everything of value in his life, Job went through a time of serious contemplation of his life. Even though he made it clear that He trusted the character of God, he still had some serious questions about the activity of God. At a time when he needed encouragement, his four closest friends showed up to show him sympathy and bring him comfort. Their grief was so overwhelming that they sat in silence with Job for seven days before anyone spoke a word to him. Then, following words of despair from Job, the three friends speak. The first friend to speak is Eliphaz, and he has a “Why” brain. He is convinced that Job’s suffering is the result of his sin, because the innocent never perishes. He thinks the best way to comfort Job is to help him figure out why all these things have happened.

Bildad speaks next, and he has a “How” brain. The first word out of his mouth is “how”. He wants Job to know how to fix the problem. His diagnosis results in the prognosis of repentance. If Job would repent of his sin, his life would start working out right again.

The third friend to speak is Zophar, and he has a “Who” brain that has been warped by pride. He wants Job to focus on God’s nature and character, but he does it in a condescending and judgmental way. He tells Job that if he really understood the deeper things of God he would realize that his sin deserves more judgment than what he has actually received. Eliphaz, the “Why” brained one, jumps in at this point and agrees, telling Job another reason why this has all happened: “You don’t fear God enough.”

It is at this point that Job stops his friends from talking and tells them that they are miserable comforters. Job is frustrated that in his time of deep need his friends can do nothing but accuse him of wrong. If they were in a similar situation Job would be able to do the same thing, but he says he would never do that. Job understands that when we are hurting and hopeless we don’t need reasons and fixes, we need healing and hope. Job says he would make sure his words were encouraging and comforting so they would bring relief. Job admits to his friends that his hope is gone, and that his heart needs healing.

It is obvious that his friends didn’t hear what he said, because Bildad responds to Job by saying, “Look, here’s how it works. God punishes the wicked, so you must be wicked.” Both friends agree, and Job is left to defend himself as a righteous man who understands God, and he succumbs to pride and reviews all of the ways he is a good man. It is time for the youngest friend Elihu to speak.

Elihu rebukes the other three friends for being “How” and “Why” brained. He warns them not to presume they have God figured out. Then he rebukes Job for pridefully defending himself and not being humble before God. He then asserts God’s justice, extols God’s greatness, and proclaims God’s majesty. Elihu has a true “Who” brain. But before we praise him too highly, God speaks and puts even Elihu in his place by saying that no man can truly understand the mind of God. When God is done speaking, Job repents of his pride and his heart is healed and his hope is restored.

What is the point of all of this? If you want to be a true encourager of others, learn to comfort them with words that direct their attention to God.  Forget the how and the why, and focus on the WHO! The knowledge of God is our greatest comfort. Don’t try to figure out causes and solutions to their trials. Instead assure them that God is with them no matter what their circumstance, and He never fails.

Here’s what Job admits when all is said and done: “I know that you can do all things; no plan of yours can be thwarted. You asked, ‘Who is this that obscures my counsel without  knowledge?’ Surely I spoke of things I did not understand, things too wonderful for me to know. “You said, ‘Listen now, and I will speak; I will question you, and you shall answer me.’ My ears had heard of you but now my eyes have seen you.” (emphasis mine)

One purpose of God in our trials is so that we may see Him. When your friends need you, the best healing you can bring is the hope that comes from seeing God for Who He is. Help them see Him. Become a person with a “who” brain – and let the “who” be God!

Pastor John